📱 eBook en inglés THE TRAP OF THANKS

"The Trap of Thanks – When gratitude becomes a way to silence your pain" challenges the modern wellness obsession with being grateful. While gratitude can be healthy, this book argues it is often weaponized as "Toxic Gratitude"—a tool to suppress valid negative emotions. Telling someone (or yourself) to "just be grateful it isnt worse" is a form of gaslighting that invalidates trauma and prevents necessary change.
Therapist Joyce Miller explains that true resilience requires facing reality, not sugarcoating it with "hashtags of thankfulness." The book illustrates how forced gratitude keeps people in abusive relationships and bad jobs because they feel guilty for wanting more. It advocates for "Integrative Appreciation," which allows space for grief and anger alongside thankfulness.
"The Trap of Thanks" gives readers permission to stop counting blessings when they are suffering. It shows that you cannot heal what you refuse to feel, and that sometimes, being ungrateful is the first step toward fixing a broken life.