Stan Tatkin

"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason.Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people''s minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts.Wired for Love is a complete insider''s guide to understanding your partner''s brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings on how and why love lasts drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this book presents ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship.Strengthen your relationship by:- Creating and maintaining a safe couple bubble- Using morning and evening rituals to stay connected- Learning to fight so that nobody loses- Becoming the expert on what makes your partner feel lovedBy learning to use simple gestures and words, readers can learn to put out emotional fires and help their partners feel more safe and secure. The no-fault view of conflict in this book encourages readers to move past a "warring brain" mentality and toward a more cooperative "loving brain" understanding of the relationship. This book is essential reading for couples and others interested in understanding the complex dynamics at work behind love and trust in intimate relationships.While there''s no doubt that love is an inexact science, if you can discover how you and your partner are wired differently, you can overcome your differences to create a lasting intimate connection.

With more than 170,000 copies sold, Wired for Love is the complete "insider's guide" to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing new research drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this highly anticipated second edition presents the ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship. This fully revised and updated edition includes new guidance on how to manage disagreements, as well as new exercises to help readers create safety and security, establish healthy conflict ground rules, and deal with the threat of the third-any outside source which threatens the harmony in a relationship, including in-laws, alcohol, children, and affairs.

¿Te preguntas constantemente qué diablos piensa tu pareja? ¿Te sientes perdido, confundido y sin entender a la persona con quien compartes tu vida? Este libro será tu mapa para salir de la frustración y de la inseguridad que sientes en tu relacion, y alcanzar el potencial que al inicio los unio.Conectados para el amor es una guia para comprender el cerebro de tu pareja y construir una relacion basada en el amor y la confianza. Al simplificar diversas investigaciones desde el punto de vista de la neurociencia, la teoria del compromiso y las emociones, este libro te ofrece diez principios clave para mejorar tu relacion. Entre estas recomendaciones el autor te invita a crear una "burbuja de pareja" y practicar rituales matutinos y vespertinos para mantener la conexion; te enseña a discutir sin que ninguno de los dos pierda y te convierte en un experto en hacer sentir amada a tu pareja.En pocas palabras, el doctor Stan Tatkin te mostrara como trabajar en equipo para transformar ese viaje de vida en comun en un camino seguro, comprometido y profundamente satisfactorio.

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